// This may only be set ONCE before use.
func (h *SingleHandler[Req, Resp]) IgnoreNilConn() *SingleHandler[Req, Resp] {
	if h.ignoreNilConn {
		gridLogOnceIf(context.Background(), fmt.Errorf("%s: IgnoreNilConn called twice", h.id.String()), h.id.String()+"IgnoreNilConn")
	}
	h.ignoreNilConn = true
	return h
}

// WithSharedResponse indicates it is unsafe to reuse the response
// when it has been returned on a handler.