var oob [1024]byte
	m, oobn, err := readProto[zdsapi.WorkloadRequest](c, time.Second, oob[:])
	if err != nil {
		panic(err)
	}

	receivedoob := oob[:oobn]
	msgs, err := unix.ParseSocketControlMessage(receivedoob)
	if err != nil {
		panic(err)
	}

	// we should get 0 or 1 oob messages
	if len(msgs) != 0 {
		assert.Equal(t, len(msgs), 1)
	}

}

func readProto[T any, PT interface {
	proto.Message
	*T
}](c *net.UnixConn, timeout time.Duration, oob []byte) (PT, int, error) {
	var buf [1024]byte
	err := c.SetReadDeadline(time.Now().Add(timeout))
	if err != nil {
		return nil, 0, err
	}
	n, oobn, flags, _, err := c.ReadMsgUnix(buf[:], oob)
	if err != nil {
		return nil, 0, err
	}
	if flags&unix.MSG_TRUNC != 0 {