// called until all of x's dependencies are removed with removeDep.
func (db *DB) addDep(x finalCloser, dep any) {
	db.mu.Lock()
	defer db.mu.Unlock()
	db.addDepLocked(x, dep)
}

func (db *DB) addDepLocked(x finalCloser, dep any) {
	if db.dep == nil {
		db.dep = make(map[finalCloser]depSet)
	}
	xdep := db.dep[x]
	if xdep == nil {
		xdep = make(depSet)
		db.dep[x] = xdep
	}