ctx, cancel := context.WithCancel(context.Background())
	defer cancel()

	fixture := connect(ctx)
	ztunClient := fixture.ztunClient
	uid := fixture.uid

	m, fds := readRequest(t, ztunClient)
	// we got am essage from ztun, so it should have observed us being connected
	mt.Assert(ztunnelConnected.Name(), nil, monitortest.Exactly(1))

	// we should get the fd to dev null. note that we can't assert the fd number