b, op, err := wsutil.ReadData(conn, c.side)
	if err != nil {
		return err
	}
	if op != ws.OpBinary {
		return fmt.Errorf("unexpected connect response type %v", op)
	}
	if c.incomingBytes != nil {
		c.incomingBytes(int64(len(b)))
	}

	var m message
	_, _, err = m.parse(b)
	if err != nil {
		return err
	}
	if m.Op != r.Op() {