func (c *conn) setState(nc net.Conn, state ConnState, runHook bool) {
	srv := c.server
	switch state {
	case StateNew:
		srv.trackConn(c, true)
	case StateHijacked, StateClosed:
		srv.trackConn(c, false)
	}
	if state > 0xff || state < 0 {
		panic("internal error")
	}
	packedState := uint64(time.Now().Unix()<<8) | uint64(state)
	c.curState.Store(packedState)
	if !runHook {
		return
	}